缔造和平,保持心灵安宁

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Have 您 ever stewed over something so long that 您 got on 您r own nerves?

哦。是的,我也没有。

How about this, then? Have we (as in 您 and I 比炖更懂的人)知道谁炖了这么长时间以至于让他们感到不安。

是的!当然有烦人吧?炖锅。

我想在一定程度上 ’s ony natural to stew in 您r own juices from time to time. If 您 have anything at all cooking in 您r mind, body, and soul, 您 will from time to time boil in it. Okay, yes…even 您 and I.

会有东西 完全相反 从我们的方式’d试图引导我们’很难克服它。我特别讨厌它 I some people chase things down to stew over them. 您 know, things that have been waaay back there on the horizon for years. We’ll 他们’ll put their life in 逆转 just to go back and brood about it a little more. When 您 think about it in those terms it’d make 您 want to kick 您rself, wouldn’t it? IF 您 ever did it, that is.

但是,朝着一个方向前进而我们的希望与梦想却又朝着另一个方向前进的事情呢? 在现在 ?唐’t we have atter屋者的权利 炖那些???一世’我要自己说“是的,事实上,我们有Squ屋’炖煮当前发生的事情的权利。” But I’d也要问自己,“Why?!?!”

用我们自己的汁炖’不能以任何方式推动我们前进。它只会使我们所有人粉红色,皱纹,皱纹和 , ugly. A goal of 您rs? Mine either.

因此,如果他们完全避免锅或爬出锅,’re already in it – amongst the bubbles? There are a few suggestions and/or thoughts about the situation below. Read over them and see which might apply to 您r “friend”炖锅。我的好友喜欢前两个。

  • Throw 您r sense of humor into the mix. Life is, actually, a lot funnier than we even realize. The main reason, of course, is that people are a lot funnier than we even realize. Even the ones that actually turn the boiler on beneath our pot(s) are characters worth at least a couple of laughs. The next time 您 feel a bubble or two bubbling beneath 您r surface, look for the humor in the situation. Imagine that what’s going on around 您 is playing out on a screen (large…small, 您r choice). What will amaze 您 is that 8 times out of 10, 您’ll quickly realize that 您’在喜剧中间重拍轻拍,而不是在电视剧中…当然不是悲剧。试试看–我在星巴克卡上发誓,在科尔也享有良好的声誉’s, 您’我很快就会被这个人活着。当我说居住时,我的意思是与大写字母L一起生活。
  • 记住并利用宁静祷告:

    上帝赐予我宁静
    接受我无法改变的事情;
    勇于改变我能做的事情;
    和智慧来了解差异。

    一次生活一天;
    一次享受一刻;
    接受艰辛作为通往和平的途径;
    像祂一样,把这个罪恶的世界
    就这样,不如我所愿;
    相信他会把所有事情都做对
    如果我投降了他的意志;
    希望我今生幸福
    对他非常满意
    永远在下。
    阿们

    –Reinhold Niebuhr

    让’面对现实,有时候我们实际上更多地是在戏剧而不是喜剧中。我们’d 非常 喜欢要求重写脚本,但是我们’坚持下去。那’s当我们不得不让最后四个单词沉入时:’回覆。卡住。用。它。你儿子嫁给了一个你不知道的女孩’t “good enough” (are they ever?)…you’我已经做了整个父母的演讲,但罗密欧却打算嫁给朱丽叶。当我们在这一点上争论时,’我们有点像棒球教练在电话会议后争论。即使它’s a bad one, it’已完成!盘子后面的那个人是’t going to say, “Man, I’对不起,拉鲁萨先生。您’re right, I wouldn’不知道我的罢工…让我快速改变一下这个电话。罢工!”罗密欧也不容易说,“You’父亲/母亲非常正确。朱丽叶(Juliet)的眼线笔过多。我在想什么请…please…请为我找到完美的女孩。”另外四个字:何时。地狱。冻结。过度。

  • 能够’别笑了,可以’t move past it? Then 您’只是要炖。 似乎是一个疯狂的疯狂选择?它是。想想吧’我跟其他人列出来很奇怪吗?它’太奇怪了。但是,什么’仍然奇怪的是’s the option most will return to again and again. 您’能够认识做事的人– it’一点也不难。他们’会是所有粉红色和皱纹地走动而没有一点盎司的人 内心的平静 。什么’他们甚至更难过’re the ones who don’不要让周围的人有任何 内心的平静 要么。办公室里的女人们用同事的语气来炖,丈夫因为妻子拿了一张超速罚单而炖肉(我说我很抱歉!),妻子因为丈夫跟踪而沸腾而沸腾,像他一样生活的少年已经结束,因为他被要求 打倒男孩“合唱团 安静地掉下来。

该职位已经超出我的预期– I know it’s a pain to get caught in the middle of a post or article 您 think just might never end. 您 get the idea.

炖或不炖是很多生活或不生活。有时我们只需要手动将自己拉出锅–它提供的视图是’无论如何,那还是很棒的。然后我们要把锅踢过去(我们’关于这部戏的全部,对吧?),我们回过头来,…..

….and….

…and live, that’s what!

让每个底池得分加倍,
i

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